A year ago today Jon and I were married. And not to sound too clichéd but it's been marital bliss ever since. I think one of the things that has made it work so well is that I have moments of crazy. I admit I'm crazy. Jon lovingly accepts my crazy and either embraces me through it, or hides in the other room. Both are usually equally affective.
Then there are those times we both have a moment of crazy. We had talked about getting a puppy this coming summer. We both really wanted a dog but agreed that we'd like at least a year of just the two of us before we add another living thing into the mix. We hadn't even bought fish for the fish tank yet. So many big changes already... single to married, living alone or with roommates to living with a spouse, once driving 5 minutes between home and work, now it's 30 minutes... Yea, definitely gonna wait on that whole dog idea till we get more settled. Or at least until we have a back yard.
And then June 23rd came along and Jon and I executed our moment of crazy. With a postage stamp 2nd story condo for a home, no backyard, (or front yard), no extra time in our lives to devote to one more thing, and only 8 months into our marriage we gleefully (and maybe just a little apprehensively) drove home with our brand new adorable puppy... who was actually three and a half years old, but we still refer to her as a puppy. Moment of crazy? Oh yea! But as I sit here as our anniversary day comes to a close, and think back over the last year of adventure, change and excitement and welcoming Chanel into our lives with open arms definitely sticks out as one of the highlights. Don't get me wrong, marrying my best friend certainly makes the cut as well!
Some may say that marrying someone you've known less than a year is crazy. Buying a condo in this economy is crazy. Beginning the process of remodeling when you know you won't have the money to complete the process for years is crazy. Adopting a dog and taking on all the responsibilities, (financial, emotional and practical) that go along with that while still newlyweds is crazy... And maybe it is. But maybe that's why Jon and I fit so well together - we both have moments of crazy, but usually at different times and in different areas and because of that we can balance each other out. We don't demand the other to stop being crazy, but rather step into the craziness and either join the fun, or lovingly invite reality into the mix.
It's been a great year and we're looking forward to many more and having Chanel as part of our family has been a moment of crazy that we wouldn't trade for the world!